While some women may be able to climax through penetrative sex, others have to rely on clitoral stimulation to reach the big-O.
In order to reach the finish line, the woman – or man – will stimulate the area to have that powerful and satisfying orgasm.
So that’s where Nadia Bokody comes in, the sexpert detailed how women can experience pleasure in a very detailed YouTube clip.
Nadia, who has over 209,000 subscribers on her channel, revealed three steps to take which guarantees a mind-blowing finish.
Talking about one of the sex toys she uses as the first step, the Australian sex writer said the Power Wand is the go-to product for beginners with clitoral stimulation.
She said: “If you’ve never ever seen a wand vibrator before it can look slightly threatening but this little gadget is my go-to product for beginners.”
Nadia’s important tip is to start out by going solo as you’re more likely to reach the big-O when you’re relaxed on your own.
She added: “Use plenty of lube, if the clitoris is not lubricated enough, it’s going to start getting irritated.
“Your clitoris is an area you don’t want to cheap out on and if you use cheap products on that area it can actually cause permanent damage so make sure you opt for high-quality toys in that area.”
And finally, once you’ve got your sex toy and have tried it a few times on your own, Nadia’s next tip is to use it during foreplay.
She explained: “Once you’ve finished playing with the toy and getting used to the sensations, try incorporating it in the bedroom.
“Have your partner hold the wand near your clitoris while kissing you. It’s going to feel amazing and it will increase the circulation around that area.
“And once you get used to this, once you start having penetrative sex you will start to feel the sensations because of the wand. You can have clitoral orgasms by just using the fingers but if you have problems then a wand will be a game-changer.
“So if you want to squirt during an orgasm, that’s the way to do it…”